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Old 07-06-2015, 09:24 AM   #1
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Default Is it appropriate to....?

Have no idea who to ask this question, so I figured I'd check the CP braintrust and possibly create a thread for others to ask questions about social conventions in an effort to possibly avoid awkward situations, looking stupid, or being embarrassed.

The lady friend and I broke up a few weeks ago. She was my date for my buddy's wedding taking place next weekend. We had the bachelor party this past weekend and I brought it up with him that I was going to minus my +1 for the wedding. It's not a big deal, but it's too late to rework seating, and not everyone got the +1 option. So while he's cool if I don't have a date, it would be nice if I could fill the spot. Fair enough.

There's a girl at my office who I feel there's been at least a little connection with, particularly before I started seeing my now ex. She's someone I would consider a "work friend" (ie, hang out at corp functions, go for after work drinks with colleagues every so often, etc..) but we've never really hung out solo outside of work, although it's been implied that we should multiple times. She even suggested we go to the fancy corp xmas party together when neither of us had dates and she just took a friend.

Anyways, really just wondering if it's appropriate to ask this person to come to the wedding. I don't look at it like a date, just someone cool to be arm candy for the evening (and yes, her being single and attractive is a good bonus). Mainly concerned about the late notice and what the girl might think of the invitation. Any insight/advice would be helpful. Thanks!
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