I don't really have experience outside of monogamy. But that Wild Oats story seems like a terrible example for a healthy relationship expanded beyond monogamy. Basically they weren't happy or enjoying each other so they split up and spent 2.5 year pretending they hadn't split up.
I think you find yourself in a situation that everyone is enjoying there is nothing wrong with following it, but you have to be able to communicate well enough to know when someone is no longer enjoying it.
But its already hard enough to find two people who are compatible enough to last, I can only imagine when you start adding 3rd or 4th or 5th.........parties
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