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Originally Posted by CliffFletcher
Exactly. The premise of the article is that it's the boredom of long-term relationships that poses a challenge to monogamy. But how many people, early in a relationship, say to their partner "this is great and everything, but when we get sexually bored with each other in 5 or 10 years, should we be able to sleep with other people?" It's like prenuptial agreements - simply asking for one is likely to undermine trust.
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I think if you have an open and honest line of communication to your spouse it doesn't have to get boring. That's on you and/or your partner getting lazy and not putting in the same effort.