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Originally Posted by Locke
Its not that simple, not even remotely. Theres all kinds of things that can change that equation. Perceived need and inequity of success chief amongst them.
I was dealing with one situation where one sibling never needed any help and was doing fine whereas the other sibling was a train-wreck so the parents left more for one than the other.
It happens.
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So does the parent leave more to the one who's proved they can deal well with money, or more to the train-wreck who needs it more?
Equality is the way to go, imo. If someone truly needs your help, they probably needed it while you were alive as well...
Edited to add: I also don't agree with large inheritances generally. I've recommended that my parents leave their money to charity, but they've said we'll each get an equal share and I can donate my part to charity if I want, which is reasonable.