[FireFly]

I would like to have a boy but not necessarily as an heir for my husband. I would in fact like at least one of each. Husband already has one daughter and I strongly suspect this one is a girl so undoubtedly, we will be having another at some point although it's a bit too early to say that decisively.

I think my husband is actually terrified of the prospect of having a mini-him. He was not the most well-behaved child and no matter what I tell him about us being different parents than his parents were, he still believes that we will have a ginger version of him and it will be hell for both of us.