[undercoverbrother]

Originally Posted by V

When all the expecting parents hear about is the terror stories they tend to forget that and get more wound up than they should.

All I tell the prospective fathers is prepare to feel as useless and helpless as you'll ever feel in your life. Good thing there are high quality trained staff taking care of things that make you pretty much expendable at that point in time.

With my daughter I was pacing around, getting in the way, bumping into the nurse. Finally she walked over to the loveseat in the room, pulled out the bed, and told me to go to sleep.

"Your are gonna need it"