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Originally Posted by OMG!WTF!
I really can't imagine anyone with kids actually thinks that way. The implication in parenting is that you've given up your number 1 card. But I guess if you have a way to explain to your kid that you are not going to spend time with them because you need to be happy and the only way to do that is to spend time with a cute chick/guy instead, then go for it. But I'm pretty sure the implication there is that "my dad doesn't like spending time with me".
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Actually the implication in parenting is that I recognize that a strong self and a strong relationship with my husband makes for the best parenting I can give my kids.
Are you suggesting that you will be at your children's beck and call forever? Because it sounds to me like you would forego any personal happiness for that of your children which will lead them to have unreal expectations when they grow up and have to be adults themselves.