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Originally Posted by OMG!WTF!
I really can't imagine anyone with kids actually thinks that way. The implication in parenting is that you've given up your number 1 card. But I guess if you have a way to explain to your kid that you are not going to spend time with them because you need to be happy and the only way to do that is to spend time with a cute chick/guy instead, then go for it. But I'm pretty sure the implication there is that "my dad doesn't like spending time with me".
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My kids are(and always will be) my #1 priority. Let's make that clear right now!!! However, just because I'm a parent, does that mean that I forfeit the opportunity to try and have a relationship as well? That's why I reached out to the CP community to ask for advice at making this work well for all parties involved. I don't need to feel like I'm being judged for wanting someone who cares about me in my life, other than my kids.