I was there, split with my crazy ex in 2010, tried the online dating crap, and crap is what it was. Untill I was looking for a new room mate. I met a girl name Tara who was looking for a place.
quick story, she was really good with my son, who was 2 at the time, and next thing I know 5 years later we are married.
So stay strong man, you'll find the right girl.