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Originally Posted by To Be Quite Honest
Confidence is a tricky mistress when you seem to have none.
The biggest and best thing to do is set yourself up for small victories. If you do the laundry, you immediately fold/hang it up. That is a victory. Wash the dishes right after you are done with them. This is a victory. Soon these things turn into habits and then it's time to choose a new conquest. Eventually, that conquest will be to get out there and meet people. At this point you'll have the confidence. First, make a friend, second make a "beneficial-friend". By then your house will be clean! And remember, a great thing to say to someone to let them know your into them is to let them know that they are on your mind. "I've been thinking about you all day and what you'd consider to be your favorite meal." "Why?" "Because I'd like to spend all day making it for you."
It's up to you to create a plan and even though you opened up on this forum, it will be a good start. If you want to watch a game sometime then send me a PM. Cheers.
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