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Originally Posted by Bagor
Have you considered getting a dog? Seriously.
Not only will it provide another presence in your residence, it will give you an excuse to get out of the house and introduce you to a whole new network of people.
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Loneliness and clinical depression usually run hand-in-hand. I've actually read that the two best ways of treating depression (w/o pills), is exercise and
owning a pet.
Having said that, I can relate to the OP. Working for over 3 years in work camps, away from home in Northern Alberta is not conducive to having a rewarding social life. I tried to make the best of it, but it's very hard to form non-work related friendships.
While the recession in the Oil and Gas sector is obviously not good, the consolation is I have had time to reflect on my life, and realized how few people I am friends with where I live. Even if I am forced to take a layoff, it could be a good thing, as I can just work in the city, and have time to join clubs, sports teams, and do volunteer work.
My advice would be to keep active, join groups, help out people, and keep your mind occupied. You have a much greater chance of meeting someone you click with.