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Originally Posted by Language
I'm about 5'7 and balding at 28, so genetics have not played in my favor. I would say that confidence, personality, hygiene and wardrobe play 99% of the role when it comes to getting laid though.
The guys who say they are subject to "heightism" clearly have confidence issues though. It really is a non-issue and unless you're going for girls that are way taller than you, shouldn't be a big deal. Guys should easily brush it off if any girl doesn't want to date a shorter guy. It's preference, just like any guy who says they don't want to date a chunky girl.
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I agree. I would go to bars and clubs with my buddy who is 5 inches taller than me. Not once did girls bring up height and they'd almost always like me over him because I would just act relaxed while my buddy would be obnoxious and loud. He'd get fake numbers and I'd get real ones talking to 2 at a time together.
Height really is insignificant unless you are real short or real tall. If you are really short wear nice vests, nice clothing, shiny shoes and just smile if someone is mean to you but don't really react. Worst thing you can do is show people it bothers you, I've had short dudes steal girls away because their game was on that elite level. It's all about the swagger and how you handle rejection .