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Originally Posted by ChickenPho
Well Ive failed to pick up on numerous signs on our 3rd date and still feel like a complete noob, but I can only do my best to take it as a learning experience and correct it for the next time I date. I most certainly will feel better than because of this experience.
There is not a bigger turn off than one who doesnt ask many questions about you. She did at the beginning, but as the date progressed she asked less and less. She would do the generic and basic "what about you" after I asked her a question and she replies.
Get this, through the entire time we talked - not once did she take the courage to ask a single question about my childhood or about my job or even my hobbies! The only times was when she was returning the favour after replying back to me after I asked her those exact same questions. And even then once you get that information, there are many ways to learn about ones hobbies or childhood or job on a much more deeper interpersonal level. I hit her with these questions, she didnt. How I didnt take this as a big sign is beyond me uhhh. You cant have any relationship with any girl who doesnt ask those questions.
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She had made up her mind, and she didn't care much about you as a dating prospect and a person. At that point she was looking for the window in the bathroom mentally.
Usually I'm pretty good at reading the signs and that's when you start sabotaging the date. Rave about your last vacation in the forbidden zone, and how life would be cooler if we were all two dimensional creatures. When the Water brings her a water scowl at him and ask how much that refill costs. Even better when she orders something from the menu, throw your menu aside and then grumble "Guess I'm just getting bread now anyways, that is complimentary right?"
If you're going to waste your time you might as well get some kicks out of it. Who knows, she might see the humor in it and find new interest in you.