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Originally Posted by ChickenPho
I would say what I find the most attractive about her is just her personality and the fact she is an independant woman who knows what she wants in life and she has a mysterious (yet hard to discover) side to her.
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I want to get back to this comment - coming from someone who is independent, and whose wife is also independent, this whole situation is looking more like you have incompatible personalities, not the 'lack of spark'...the whole 'she's not that into you' responses are a result of this.
Someone who is independent is going to be turned off immediately by someone who falls hard and fast - they typically want someone who can live their own life, and can let them live theirs. Someone who falls hard and fast very well could end up being a Stag 5 Clinger, so they're going to run away as soon as there are signs of that happening.