You'll have a pretty good idea on your first "date" if you like the person or not and whether they like you or not. Anytime anyone gives you an explanation as to why it "might" not be what they are looking for, they really mean to say it's not what they're looking for.
Were you always available when you first started talking to her? In the future, don't be. This means, delayed responses, unable to make suggested dates due to prior commitments, etc. Some will say don't play games, but you don't want to make yourself the guaranteed option, because that's what you'll become - the option.
Obviously, this is just during the initial stages. Don't mess around once it's clear how the other person feels 'cause then you'll just push / drive them away.
When someone is truly into you, you'll know. If you have to sit and analyze think through things that happened / didn't happen, know that it's not going to happen.
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