[Since1984]

Originally Posted by ChickenPho

The birthday thing, I usually always put in my calendar because to me remembering a persons special day is very important. Even if I didnt take her out, I would have at least remembered to wish her a happy birthday. Most girls (or maybe just about all) Ive dated in the past and known would get pissed if you dont remember basic stuff like their birthday. So ever since, Ive always made it a habit of putting them into my calendar.

Im going to try to find some free or low cost classes around the city or hobby groups to join to meet new people. Will attend them with no intention what so ever meeting girls, but just to meet new people. Funny how things usually work, you more often than not will find someone compatible when you arent looking and least expect it.

I might try tinker, I will see. But all I know is, I am beyond done with online dating. eharmony, lavalife, POF, okcupid, Ive tried them all and its been nothing but a huge waste of time and money for me. Im just no longer a fan of the online dating scenario and general setup. I need to change things up and start meeting people more in person as opposed to online first. Ive even tried speed dating (the most recent being last month) and all 3 times were a huge waste of time and money. Interesting concept, was different (hence why I tried it), cause you never know until you try right? Id never do it again.

Im not getting any pressure at all from my parents or family.

Well good luck either way buddy! Stop looking and the best thing in your life will fall in to your lap