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Originally Posted by troutman
Does that ever really work? If so, that is messed-up. Wicked games.
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I have a very good friend who has been in the 'friend zone' with a girl for 12 YEARS. He has been whining to me for 10 years and basically being this girl's bitch- shopping with her, walking with her, going out with her to dinner but NEVER getting anywhere.
So finally one day I told him I was sick of hearing about this stuff year after year, and I said he should follow my advice or not talk about it anymore.
Well- he started ignoring her texts and dating another girl, and not being there for her. She showed up at 10pm on his doorstep after week two of no texting back and him seeing someone else, and gave him the night of his life.
It's not that the girl fell in love with him, it was just a matter of pride for her- and that's how the dating world works. Funny thing is of course, after 'that night' my friend lost interest in his long time crush and ever since, she's been trying to get him to pay attention to her like he used to.
Not saying every person is like this, but for the most part- they are- especially in today's scene.