Like many have suggested, she isn't into you. But she is at least nice enough to tell you that she likes you and sees good things in you. I have been in that situation and even with the misreading of signals as well (the kiss situation). It stings more at first than being shot down hard, but it shows that you are a good person, just not a good fit for this person.
Re: the comments about "being friend zoned" the biggest thing that you need to know is that there is no such thing as being friend-zoned. You are a guy they won't ever like, a guy they like, but with no sexual chemistry, or someone who they share chemistry with. It took a girl I was hanging with (but things not going anywhere) to be plainly honest for me to get that. We are still friends now.
When I recovered from my mind=blown, then I just started to go out, have fun, start conversations with people without an agenda, just see if we click, then take it from there. Within in month I meet a girl, start dating, now we are engaged.
All in all, this is a decent situation - you learn about yourself, you are treated nicely, even though she isn't into you, and you get a chance to move on instead of pouring energy into something that isn't going to work.
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