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Originally Posted by ChickenPho
Ya I'm gonna move on, I'm just confused by her "Im not sure if I feel enough of a spark" cause it sounds teeter totter on the fence.
Ultimately, she wants love at first sight and I'm much more patient and this right here is 100% proof that a relationship between us wouldnt last. It is what it is, it was fun while it lasted. We just have completely different mindsets when it comes to dating and relationships, and why I always try (at least prefer) to date women as close as my age as possible. I know age is only a number, but Ive found that even dating someone who is 2 or 3 years closer to my age than someone who is say 6 or 7 years apart can make a huge difference - stages in your life, experiences, mindset.
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I used to have this mindset until I met my husband. I wouldn't call it love at first sight; I wouldn't even say we had a spark right away but we fit and it was comfortable and we developed the spark when we started being intimate. If you haven't been intimate with her, maybe that's all she's missing? She wants a 500 degree oven and you're slow-cooking her on the low setting. Maybe turn it up to high for a date or two and see what happens?