To me the spark was there right away when I met my wife and we've spent pretty much every day together since we met although we were more friends with benefits before we were official but neither of us were seeing anyone else so it was basicly being together without a title.
I think when you meet the person you should be with you will know when you meet them. If you have to force it then it's not right for you. Trust your gut. My wife and I became best friends before we had kids and married but the spark was there instantly and our relationship came easy.
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