Very sorry to hear that, Hank sounds like he was a great friend.
There's actually an ongoing thread pertaining to this:
http://forum.calgarypuck.com/showthread.php?t=61659 - Please don't take that at all as me saying Fata or something like that, but rather I feel it's theraputic to see others here who have gone through it as well, and all the support everyone has for each other on CP. Just wanted to share. That thread certainly helped me when I went through the same thing a little over a month ago.
R.I.P. Hank