[pylon]

After thinking about this more, I actually figured out my exact strategy, and how I would handle it.

I have absolutely nothing to hide, so I would smile and say "Of course, feel free to look through my stuff."

Once she was done, I would ask, "Ok, is everything satisfactory to you?" and of course she would say yes, because I am not a two timing scum bag. "Great, I am glad you now know I am not a cheating POS, and make a lot more money than than I ever told you I did. Now get out of my house, and lose my number forever."

I would never ask to pry in my partners business, ever. If I am suspicious enough of them to want to pry, I am not with the right person. Period.