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Originally Posted by Peanut
I've only snooped on one person and that was because I realized something was, in fact, going on and when asked directly, it was denied. So I snooped, found some stuff that confirmed it, and then the relationship ended.
I don't snoop on my now-husband because I trust him. And vice versa. Although sometimes he does ask me "who are you talking to on the internet?!?". And my answer is usually "some nerds".
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Originally Posted by Slava
I don't look on my wifes phone and she doesn't look on mine. I have a lot of business information on my phone actually, and I wouldn't let her use my laptop either. I get that she can probably keep a secret, but some of this information is peoples personal financial information, such as friends and family. I just don't ever want anyone to think I have violated that confidence.
I do know a couple where he went into her emails and found out about a "rendezvous" though and that was interesting to watch. Clearly he was upset, but then again he was going through her emails, so she was also upset. To me the lesser 'crime' was the snooping, but I just stayed out of it entirely.
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Ditto. She can read pretty much anything I do, but my phone/laptop are off limits due to the confidentiality of my client's and their information.
I'll admit, I'm paranoid about that as some of her friends/coworkers are my clients and I have access to information that is none of her business regarding them.
Its never been a problem, she understands completely. She does think I spend too much time talking to 'all those hockey people.'