I am a big believer that trust is earned not granted. I earn my wife's trust by being open and honest, and she does the same for me. My phone, my computer everything else is an open book. She is not the jealous type nor have I given her reason to be.
If I felt early on that she had trust issues or was overly jealous, we wouldn't be together. Life is to short IMO to have to deal with this.
If for some reason she became overtly snoopy or jealous in our relationship now, I would have a heart to heart with her, find out why this has change and try my best to resolve it.
Like most everyone, I have been in bad relationships, and have learned from them. This is the formula that works best for me.
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