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Old 06-28-2006, 01:27 PM   #5
BlackEleven
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Originally Posted by habernac
the living together beforehand thing is a must IMO. How are you going to know what another person is truly like if you don't live with them first?
Totally agree.

In my experience all sorts of conflicts can start to emerge when you live together. For example, what if one person is a neat freak and the other a slob or the couple have dramatically different views on how money should be spent. That's something you may not realize until your living together and if you're already married you might get stuck in a situation you don't want to be in that's hard to get out of.
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