I'd love to get into the science behind this for us guys and how we view and desire women. I've read fascinating things about the waist/hip ratio, the evolutionary pull for mate selection. I reached out to a neuroscientist friend of mine whom I hope has some thoughts on the issue if there is anything recent in the scientific literature.
My feeling has been for a long time that we play a game of what is ok and what isn't when it comes to sexuality, I've long been a really liberal man in how I treat it, its fun, its arousing and I love to see beautiful women, and I'm torn because I don't want women to feel bad seeing a thread like that on this forum nor that it should make them feel that this is adding to Misogyny.
We can't deny this very primal evolutionary pull towards visual stimuli, and I always feel that trying to deny our primal nature is bad, but in modern society does that mean we just do our best to keep it out of public forums and hide in our computer room staring at boobies?
Just because I look at a bikini clad woman, or some hot cosplay, does not mean I think lesser of a woman in any way, its objectifying, no doubt there but that pulls at menīs very primal mating instinct, or is it a lot to do with environment as well.