Horrible thing to happen to him, but I must ask, at what amount is too much? Are people intending to make him a millionaire? He already has $80,000, which is more than enough to help him out of this situation. I think there is a line when it becomes exploitation and it is hovering on the line right now.
I was going to donate to him, but after seeing he already has more than enough, I have made a small donation to Amnesty international for LGBT rights.
http://www.amnestyusa.org/donate-to-amnesty