But wretched, you sound like a decent human being. What is common sense for you about how to split up and how to treat your ex and division of property etc. Is really not common sense for a lot of people (men and women both). Especially if the split is not amicable, or one person is abusive, or both people are just immature and trying to hurt each other through the kids... Any number of scenarios. The court process is there to protect the kids. As far as I know, anyways.
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