Also if you are single ask yourself this do you need a women? If you want one why do you want one?
People need people. Most of us have a deep-seeded longing to be part of a union. Joseph Campbell calls this "surrendering to the duad". The Chinese call it yin and yang. Bono calls it "two hearts, beat as one".
We are incomplete outside the duad. The union makes us better.
Yin and yang can be thought of as complementary (rather than opposing) forces that interact to form a dynamic system in which the whole is greater than the assembled parts.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Yin_and_yang