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Originally Posted by rubecube
It's more an issue of entitlement and it's certainly not new.
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I was actually coming here to edit my post to a similar conclusion, as I was thinking about it more this morning.
Entitlement, lack of resilience when facing "rejection" ... both results of a society with a focus on consumption of well designed yet hollow gratification mechanisms. This is especially true with young men, it seems. Masculinity IS facing a crisis, but organizing a No Girls Allowed Club like this is NOT the solution.
To the OP... think about what you are writing. There is zero logic or honour in this ethos. Of COURSE you are in dominion of yourself, this is to be expected. How is this a new idea at all? Everyone has their rights and freedoms and need to do what is necessary can to keep themselves healthy. However, the balance of the philosophy of this group seems to want to claim dominion over others, women in particular, when it serves your frustrated desires and twisted purposes.
I'm glad men like you are taking themselves off the marriage market. I would be horrified and dismayed to a great degree if my daughter ever ended up with someone that held these beliefs. It makes me shudder to think, though, that this is the trend.. and that these are the slim pickings that our increasingly qualified female population has to choose from when considering a mate. Fewer and fewer qualified men are being shaped in our culture, and it is a tragedy that will continue bearing its sour fruits for years to come if we don't address it.
This attitude is disgusting and dangerous. I am reminded of that ####### who murdered those sorority women in cold blood because no one would sleep with him when I read your words. In case you need to have this spelled out to you, I am comparing you to a cold blooded, mass murderer. How on earth is this a good thing that I am reminded of that with your words?
May I ask how old you are? It sounds as though you are quite young. Grow up. Please confront and address your frustrations before you go further down this dark path.