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Originally Posted by saillias
Yeah it just comes off like that person doesn't give a fata about you and wants to see if you're inviting people that they do like. It's basically saying, well I don't like you enough to say yes as is, but if you're inviting some better people I may change my mind.
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It's not saying that at all. It could be, but it could be saying a million other things.
Is it just you and me? Maybe I'm in the mood for a big party and will choose to do something else. Maybe I'm in the mood for something mellow and just going for a burger and a beer with you will be perfect.
Are wives invited?
Is it just a dude thing?
Is it all the single guys and we're going out to get loaded?
Is it just a few of us for wings?
Is the super unfunny guy from your work going again?
Are we going to just be watching football (because I hate that)?
Etc.
I think it's really rude for you to have more information on what you expect me/us to be doing, but you illogically don't feel like sharing that with me. I'll accept your invite if you invite me to something I want to do. Don't invite people to a mystery evening and then get upset when they want a few details.