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You say they were only dating 3 months and the article says they were living together. This tells me that the mother has extremely poor judgement.
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I agree, but poor judgment is something men and women do everyday...like how I brought home a total stranger last Saturday. I think it is totally irrelevant to this case. Poor judgement shouldn't lead to your daughter's throat being slashed and that sounds like victim blaming to me.
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You also say she had previously lost a child in a car accident. So she's had three kids and yet moves men in and out of her life rather quickly... I don't care who you are; that's dangerous.
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I don't know her history well enough to comment on this, but I don't this is relevant either way. She lost her kid about 15 years ago so I really don't think it is fair to come to this assumption.
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It also says the mother wasn't home; so where was she? Her ex has (according to you,) slit her daughter's throat while looking for her... why in the hell have you left your 8 year old and other son home alone? Is the son older or younger?
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She was home and trying to get him to get out. He killed her while the mother was getting help from the neighbor. He beat her up good and she escaped to get help of course not thinking he would hurt her children.
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While the ex is the one ultimately responsible for this event, the mother needs to take a good, hard look at the choices she makes with hers and how they affect those around her.
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This is typical victim blaming, and even though you say the ex is ultimately responsible your post says otherwise.