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Originally Posted by Dominicwasalreadytaken
Did they specify when they wanted the loan paid off? If you made a committment to pay it off in a period of time and had the ability to do so and still you bought clothes instead of paying back the loan I'd say you were selfish. If there was no agreement on how quickly it should be paid off, no big deal. And why the heck do your siblings care? Was it their money somehow??
Just remind me to never loan you money.
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Sorry for missing this post.
Well, no there wasn't any agreement with the family, but I felt pretty bad for delaying in paying them back when I was able to. After working a 9-5 job, it finally got me to realize just how hard it is to make money and get by in life. Though, I was pretty lucky for having a really well paying job for doing practically nothing but sit there, you can't take anything for granted - obviously at that time I did. Everyone has bills to take car of and it was pretty selfish of me to not pay them back ASAP, even if I had to save up however much every week or so. Thats what I did when I started working, saved up and spent nearly nothing on myself, until I had everyone paid back. Once that was done, my spending got out of control again - $400 eyeglasses, you name it.
The good thing coming from all of this, is that I dont drink or smoke. If I did, I would be in much more in a world of hurt.