Bah, I still don't think it's selfish. My siblings always get on my case because I don't buy the best things for other people's birthdays, etc. but I couldn't care less. I spend the time to look for something for them, and if they aren't happy with it? Too bad.
The way I figure it, my money has one use, and only one use. It helps make my life easier. If I can retire in the next 5-10 years because I scrimp and save and spend every last penny on investing, it will be well worth it. If you feel that you would have a much more comfortable life by buying the things you want, go for it. Just don't complain when you're 40 years old and still renting out a basement suite and living from paycheck to paycheck. Just look back on how happy that $750 cell phone made you feel.
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