[MissKat]

that you rrrreally rrrrrrreally want, no matter the circumstances and how much it costs and even though you have other priorities that you should take care of first. Im like this at times, and i consider this to be selfish and im trying to stop it. I am ashamed and get so upset with myself for acting this way and thinking the mentality, "if I want it, I will have to have it." But then I look at everyone else in my family, "if you dont need it, save your money." Also "life aint all about toys and what you own, but rather who you are inside as a person and what you give to others." Heck, there are some things right now that I own, that I frankly have no business owning. Some of the worst impulse buys (though the cell phone I love it), $400 on new eyewear when I really didnt even need it, $750 on a cell phone, $400 on a Prada skirt.

Any of you guys really good with controlling the spending on yourself all the time and instead doing it to others who mean a lot to you in life?