My apologies if this has been covered already, in the past 119 posts. I guess I'm looking at this from a mother's perspective. You have 3 very young children. Whilst that might make the move easier, and their adjustment somewhat easier (not always, obviously), they are very young. You know that you're taking a pay decrease and in light of that, your wife is considering opening a bed and breakfast - one presumes in order to make up the anticipated shortfall.
A B&B is a helluva lot of work (thanks, Tips) - and your children are very young and require a lot of attention. There's going to be a lot of competition for your wife's time between the children and the B&B business. She's already essentially involved around the clock with the childcare - the B&B is going to add a rather large burden to her shoulders. The free time you think you'll have (and want) will be consumed with the B&B.
Good luck with your decision. It wouldn't be the decision I would make based on the things you've outlined and a young family, but regardless of what direction you choose, all the very best to your family.
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