Stay where the money is for now. Your 30s/early 40s are the best time to earn and save money. Make it a medium- or long-term goal to end up in BC if you want, but if you have a high-paying job in O&G right now and are reasonably happy there, I think your best bet to set your family up for better opportunities in the future is to maximize your earning potential right now.
Money is important as it equals opportunity, security and leisure. You can have plenty of basic leisure without much money, but you will limit the opportunities for your kids, and drastically reduce the security for your family.
I think you should do two things. The first is to look at houses in Lake Bonavista, or another lake community in Calgary. There is a lot of what you desire right here in Calgary, plus you get to keep your better job. The second is to book a holiday in Kelowna during the second week of January and then tell us how much better it is than Calgary. When it's -10 and overcast and there's nothing to do, I doubt you'll be thinking it's that great.
If you really want to move to where the weather is, get down to San Diego somehow. I don't know how difficult it would be as a Canadian to move to the USA, but if I was moving somewhere for the weather, I would go balls out and get to the perfect weather. Kelowna seems like a slight weather upgrade over Calgary, but not much of one and certainly not one I'd risk half my income to enjoy.
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