Don't get me wrong. I don't want to hold the fact that I make more over her head, and I don't want to have unequal spending money for each of us.
I want it to be a fair arrangement but we both have our own spending money to spend on whatever we want. I just don't like the idea of having to get all of my purchases approved or scrutinized. I made the money I want to be able to spend it. Same for her. I want her to be able to spend the money she works hard for how she wants to.
Now once we have kids it is a different story. Hopefully she will stay home and I will be the sole provider. In that case things will change.
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