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Originally Posted by Erick Estrada
That was my point as most of you are somewhat hypocritical lambasting people anonymously when you wouldn't face to face. If you feel so strongly about it why are you so scared to stand up for it? It's not like anyone is going to punch you in the face for voicing your contrary opinion. You are simply scared of the ridicule which stems all the way back to the topic of why men don't cold approach women. Men don't like rejection. You may hold yourself to a higher standard but at the end of the day you are what you are.
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This is true, its obviously easier to call someone out on a forum. It's a generally safe place to share an opinion whether its emotionally charged or not.
If I keep my mouth shut in person, it's because I don't think its worth the energy to do otherwise. There are times when I can't help myself and speak up, even if a punch to the face is a potential consequence. I don't really care about that, I am good at facing confrontation and diffusing fights. I'd rather not come to blows over something that doesn't require it.. that's another conversation, but sometimes you have to be willing to face that uncomfortable friction to resolve a problem. Most people can control their urge to hit someone, even if they're feeling it.
I would have said to your face what I wrote in that comment, and I am pretty sure you would have heard me out whether you agree with me or not.