I think guys that are afraid to hit on girls need to realize that you're never going to bat 1.00. Way back in my day I used to hit about 0.15 which although is a terrible average if you put it into perspective that meant if I hit on 10 girls a night at least one was going to come home with me. I'm a decent looking dude with a certain amount of charm, but I also have no fear of rejection. Nothing ventured nothing gained.
Sure there's an art of being smooth and an art to the pick up, but there's also the scatter gun approach and sooner or later some girl somewhere is going to fall for your charms.
Also. Go ugly early.
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