I have cold approached a woman and it was a horrible experience. I am naturally shy and introverted, I get nervous and stumble over my words.
So this one time I had a couple shots in me and decided to approach this girl that was cute, I wasn't acting macho or dickish and I wasn't loaded (just enough to get some liquid courage), all I did was introduce myself and the reaction was the worse I could have imagined at that time. She looked at me and scoffed, turned to her friends and proceeded to insult me by calling me a fat loser who had no chance with her. So I walked away and returned to my friends pretending like nothing happened.
But I'm not going to lie when you put yourself out of your natural element and get burned like that it sticks with you. To this day I haven't cold approached anyone and have met all of my dates online.
If that makes me a loser that should die alone, so be it. It is who I am.
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