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Originally Posted by MattyC
Yeah for sure. I was more looking for a reason to pull out, "Well why don't you ask him?"
I talk with my GF about this sometimes as she tells me stories about her friends and the guys they hang out with. And almost every single problem they have can be solved by just actually asking questions of the guy, or telling them what they want.
Most women seem to think that guys can read their minds fo stuff like this, or that were supposed to pick up on subtle signals like playing with hair or saying something a particular way. In my experience, most guys are pretty simple when it comes to this stuff. Tell us how you feel and we will react in a way we deem appropriate, but expecting us to somehow know the intricate workings of the mind of a woman without any actual interaction is just futile.
This also applies to the age old "you know what you did". No we don't. And whatever we said that made you really mad, we forgot about as soon as it left our mouths 2 weeks ago.
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And some girls aren't that complicated either.... But then again, I've been accused of being like a guy when it comes to feelings/emotions. My biggest flaw is that I tend to overthink things too much but I am working on that one.