I can cold approach any lady and strike up a conversation and I usually do quite well until the uncontrolled bursts of laughter from my wife ruin things. Or she notices the snot and left over food from one of my kids on my shoulder. Outside of that I'm golden.
Outside of a few megamen here approaching and interacting with women is very difficult. I think it all comes down to confidence (not arrogance) and being comfortable with who you are. That alone can be extremely difficult for some, accepting you for you is a big step in damn near anything. I have no sage advice other than nothing ventured nothing gained and to always remember things are not so bad that they can't get worse.
The way I look at it anyone telling you they like you has to be a little flattering and make you feel good. No need to be rude and make them feel like an ass as I'm sure they had to work the courage up to approach in the first place. Of course there are exceptions.
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