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Originally Posted by strombad
Without going down the whole misogynistic line here that things like a video guide clearly represents, all I'll say is that it really is just stupid.
If it makes your life easier, great I suppose, but women are just human beings like anyone else, you don't need any special techniques to talk to them. There isn't some magic formula.
Just look at it this way: How would you look at some guy if he had to watch a video on "How to chat with friends!" just so he could go out for drinks with his buds? A little unfortunate and embarrassing, of course. It's the same thing. You could say it in a nice way if you wanted, but the guy would definitely be a "loser."
My point is simply that videos and books and all that stuff are really embarrassing and disrespectful things to admit to using. The idea that you need a lesson on how to talk to a woman treats them like they're something more or less than human. They're just people. Just talk to them like people. It isn't magic.
Just look at Dion. He goes and he talks to them like they're human beings, and it seems to turn out just fine for him. Again, if you need to watch a video to learn to talk to people like they're people, you should probably just die alone.
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Maybe it's because you're 'heavily' tattooed you think you're so cool. Not everyone was blessed with normal working motor skills or knows how to talk to friends/make them. Everyone grew up differently with different settings.
Some people I went to school with just seemed to have problems saying the right things at the right times and that in itself could cause problems for them because some people might not want to be friends with 'socially awkward people'.
People watch videos on how to skate, does that mean they shouldn't ever learn to play hockey? Others watch videos on how to cook that means they are losers and should starve to death?