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Originally Posted by Thor
Sorry but this is stupid. First guys don't learn this naturally, no one teaches us what women like and don't like when being approached. These guys right or wrong test out what works and learn what doesn't, the hard way.
There is a science to the art of the pickup, if you think they are losers, fine, but they get results and ultimately learning the game and what works makes life better for both women and men.
I really wish women were more into being the aggressors in social settings, which happens a lot more here in Iceland than anywhere else, but sadly its almost always up to the guy to initiate and that means you should learn what works and what doesn't.
There is so much behind all this, psychology, confidence, and becoming a better more confident guy, and I wish I had read "The Game" by Neil Strauss when I was 16, just so much stuff I had to learn the hard way.
Mind you now with my celebrity in Iceland things are a lot easier, but I still find myself using things I've read and learned over the years, and it works, not always mind you but I can promise you good looking women like it, they don't feel like they are being harassed and have fun, which is the goal of learning this stuff, so you are not that annoying guy most girls want to run away from.
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Without going down the whole misogynistic line here that things like a video guide clearly represents, all I'll say is that it really is just stupid.
If it makes your life easier, great I suppose, but women are just human beings like anyone else, you don't need any special techniques to talk to them. There isn't some magic formula.
Just look at it this way: How would you look at some guy if he had to watch a video on "How to chat with friends!" just so he could go out for drinks with his buds? A little unfortunate and embarrassing, of course. It's the same thing. You could say it in a nice way if you wanted, but the guy would definitely be a "loser."
My point is simply that videos and books and all that stuff are really embarrassing and disrespectful things to admit to using. The idea that you need a lesson on how to talk to a woman treats them like they're something more or less than human. They're just people. Just talk to them like people. It isn't magic.
Just look at Dion. He goes and he talks to them like they're human beings, and it seems to turn out just fine for him. Again, if you need to watch a video to learn to talk to people like they're people, you should probably just die alone.