[Hack&Lube]

So

Study shows that studies show what studies show...

I think parents need to stop paying attention to studies and pay attention to the particulars and characteristics of their child. Everybody is born differently and we all have behavioural and learning affinities/capabilities/proficiencies that are different from one and another. You can see the stark difference in personalities even between siblings and we are all adept in and adapt to different things.