Ethics/morality, philosophy and spirituality are what it should be about. A true Christian in my mind forgives people for the hurtful things they do, has empathy for everyone, treats others as they would want to be treated, humbles themselves, exalts no man, their purpose in life is to leave the world a better place after they are gone, aligns the core of their being with good and does not judge others.
As far as the idea that you must worship Jesus to go to heaven I don't know, no idea if heaven is a thing or something completely different than the cultural consensus. If you judge people for their believes or condemn them as inherently bad you aren't being Christian. I will defend Christians because the I've seen first hand the good they can do if they are truly Christian (e.g. going to help rebuild homes in New Orleans on their own dime, unannounced for more than 3 months)
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