Seriously, eHarmony is like fishing with dynamite. I am 39, and am managing to reel in at least one mid-late 20's smoke show a week, and the market on women in their 30's is limitless if you don't mind if they have rug rats.
-Have top notch, professionally worded email templates.
-Always skip straight to mail, ignore the stupid surveys.
-Don't be intimidated by girls you think are super out of your league, because tons of guys write them off as such.
-Be funny.
-Always have your primary picture wearing a suit, no broski gym pics.
-Ramfire emails to every match you are interested in. Just play the numbers game, and don't take it personal if you get rejected.
-Be 100% up front you are just looking to hang out for the time being, nothing serious. Even the ones looking for serious long term stuff appreciate that approach and will look past it, as it eliminates pressure.
-Never lie about anything.
It is so much cheaper than actually going out and trying to meet women the old fashioned way, I would never go back. I am on some $6 a month promo plan they emailed me a few months back... you can't even buy a woman a frikkin drink for 6 bucks. I am meeting anywhere between 4-8 women a month right now. I am a very average looking guy, and in borderline bad shape right now, and it blows my mind some of the women that have agreed to meet, and actually come back for more.
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