Hmmm might be stripped?? I have burned through my fair share of stands the most maddening being a yorkville (I believe that's the name) But Gibraltar stands have given me a tonne of milage , you can get an 8600 series stand from L&M for 80 bucks or the 5600 for 60 bucks and I definitely give it a recommendation. Another cool hardware accessory is a mini boom for your smaller cymbals, L&M sells a really good Pearl mini boom for 35 bucks, im using two on my kit below!
Hope that helps!!
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