Hey Diss. Tough situation. I wonder if you can consider something for a moment.
It doesn't sound like your ex has made a ton of great decisions in the past. That probably won't change going forward because from what I can gather in this thread she is a very selfish person. The one thing she has done for you is give you a second chance at a life that includes someone else. This is a gift that you may not yet realize the value of. It might be time to forgive her for being a bad person. It doesn't sound like she intentionally tried to hurt you. She's just a thoughtless, selfish person. A not uncommon condition. Unfortunately these fun loving folks leave many others in their wake.
Back on topic I wouldn't go out of my way to spend to much time with your sister and her husband at this point. If they don't value you and your company so be it. There are way better people in the world to spend your time with. Spend that time with your parents instead. Odds are they won't be around as long as your sister. Your son also comes to mind. What about your fiancé or your friends, wouldn't they all make you feel better about yourself than people who side with or are fundamentally like your selfish ex?
Worry about the people in your life that worry about you.
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